Jelly Roll is back in the dating game — and his ex Bunnie Xo is all for it.

On the Thursday, June 18 episode of her Dumb Blonde podcast, Bunnie, 46, opened up about entering a new chapter with the country star, 41, as they navigate their divorce.

“Daddy Roll is probably in his finest season, right? He’s feeling himself. He looks so good. He is healthier than he’s ever been,” said Bunnie, who revealed that the singer has “started dating.”

“J is a little lover, and he, you know, he likes to snuggle and he likes to cuddle,” she continued, assuring her listeners she’s “fine over here.” “The crazy thing is, I’m not even ready to hook up with a dude. I’m ready to focus on myself and pour into myself.”

Bunnie, real name Alisa DeFord, even encouraged other women to slide into her ex’s DMs on Instagram. “Don’t be scared. Shoot your motherf—ing shot,” she said. “I will be the ex-wife, okay? And we’ll have a great time.”

The podcast host underscored that her only issue with a potential romantic partner for Jelly Roll would be if any disrespect comes into play.

“I will welcome you with open arms, but if you’re a bitch who is lying straight-up the first time you meet my husband — God, gotta stop calling him that — the first time you meet J,” she continued. “First of all, we are like the FBI. We will figure out everything about you. And two, we just don’t wanna have to do that. Just come correct and be cool.”

Bunnie also detailed the kind of woman Jelly, real name Jason DeFord, is looking to find next. “He needs a really sweet girl who is normal and isn’t like, f—ing trying to be a f—in’ influencer,” she said. “No offense to anybody — his wife, you know — no offense to anybody, but I think he wants the complete opposite of me, which is what he deserves.”

She also revealed that Jelly “wants to settle down,” but that she’s encouraging him to “play the f—in’ field.”

News broke earlier this week that Jelly Roll had quietly filed for divorce in Tennessee last month after nearly 10 years of marriage to Bunnie.

A source previously told PEOPLE that the exes have “always had a complicated dynamic,” stretching back to the early days of their relationship. When they first met, Jelly was struggling financially and Bunnie made her living as a sex worker.

“When they first got together, they were both in a very different place in their lives,” the source says. “There was a lot of chaos, ups and downs, and they built a life together through all of that.”